The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. Obviously they both love the same man, but they don’t know why they just can’t get along well with each other, so they fight until they are red in the face.In fact, this problem is not the solution can not open, mother-in-law do not let their own suffering daughter-in-law suffer again, do daughter-in-law mother-in-law as mother filial piety, will not harmony?Some daughters-in-law will say that at the beginning, they also take their mother-in-law as their own mother, but after a few times, they hurt their hearts and hardened their hearts. People who are too kind are deceived.A sensible mother-in-law will not embarrass her daughter-in-law. The better the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law, the happier she will be.What daughter-in-law is not grateful for taking good care of her during her confinement?On January 22, there was a puerpera in Hebi, Henan province, who was reluctant to get out of bed and walk after a natural birth.The medical staff suggested that the puerpera more out of bed activity, is conducive to physical recovery, but the puerpera still refused to exercise more.The mother-in-law, who has been there before, of course knows what the medical staff say is right, but the daughter-in-law does not cooperate and cannot be forced.For the sake of her daughter-in-law’s health, the mother-in-law came up with a clever plan.The mother-in-law told her that she would be rewarded with 300 yuan for every step she took when she got out of bed, and then showed her a wad of banknotes.The daughter-in-law saw that her mother-in-law was serious and began to endure the discomfort of getting out of bed to exercise under the “temptation” of the material.And the mother-in-law did not go back on her word, standing in front of her daughter-in-law, every time her daughter-in-law took a step, she handed over 300 yuan.Get material encouragement, daughter-in-law more perseverance to continue to walk, the physical pain has long been put aside, take a step on the three hundred, take a step on the three hundred, the mother-in-law’s hand soon saw the bottom of the bill.Such a mother-in-law really makes people envy, not for this money, but for her daughter-in-law’s body, really hard.The daughter-in-law can also feel her mother-in-law’s heart, do not let her mother-in-law down, keep exercising.Can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well like this?The woman gives birth to a child in confinement is the most vulnerable time, the mother-in-law both efforts to take care of, and pay rewards, the daughter-in-law remembers the affection of the mother-in-law, naturally more filial piety to the mother-in-law.Some netizens said that her mother-in-law had to wait for several days after she could have recovered in one day.Another netizen said that if she met such a mother-in-law, she would play until her mother-in-law could not catch up with her.Some netizens said that this is the rich play, only a strong economic strength can be such a reward.However, some netizens questioned why they would reach out and ask for money.You have the confidence to make your own money. You always feel inferior to others for money.Simple point of view to accept the mother-in-law’s reward does not mean to humble, nor does it mean that they do not have independent economic ability, this is a mind of the mother-in-law, why not accept it?In fact, it should be the other way round, mother-in-law’s own economic strength is more conducive to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.As long as young people are not lazy, they have the ability to make money. When old people are old and have no money, it is easy to ask their children for money.There is a limit to how much children can show their filial piety to their parents. If parents reach old age and can only rely on their children to support them, isn’t it a heavy burden for a couple to support four old people?Only raise one parent, do not raise the other parent, the couple do not quarrel?Depend on who be inferior to depend on oneself, oneself economy is good, when children encounter a problem, want to make an effort to make an effort, do not want to make an effort to give money, which still have what contradiction?